I can’t guess what you want. Should the 4. be a 1. (restart list there)?
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Seriously. Do you really expect to see something like this?
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Page break, header 1 - and the list continues from the previous page? The only time I would expect to see a list continue is if I inserted a graphic between two list items (for example). Otherwise, always start a new list. I mean, this is very very basic standard behaviour in Word, Flare, Framemaker, Markdown, Asciidoc. What on earth is the advantage of setting the default to something no one would ever do?
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xx n, xx n Cont., xx n End and xx n Start are “buddy” paragraph styles
Very true for End and Start, it was completely automatic. But not Cont. If it’s a buddy style, why does it completely ignore the indents that the others obey?
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Here is my list from levels 2 to 4:
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Note that the tab arrow indicates the Cont. indents - exactly the same for each level. Here is my indent defintions per level:
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As you can see from level 3 and 4, I can insert indents measured in kilometers, and it just gets ignored.
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I gave up on it, and defined a second number style (based on Numbering 4, not Cont) with a space bullet. Same as above, it just applies exactly one indent, seemingly at random.
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Please let me know what “space bullet” you used (in the xx n Cont. style??) that you managed to get the spacing right for continuous list items. I don’t mind fiddling with the indents, this would take a few minutes, but when the indents are all ignored…?